Since this is only my 2nd post - here's some info about me. I'm an Elder. The title that best describes the role of an Elder, for me, is GodMother. As a GodMother I am committed to sharing the wisdom of my experience and to be a Mighty Expression of Love in the World.
"What would the world be like if everyone loved themselves and what they did?"
As a teen, more than 50 years ago, I wrote in my journal, What would the world be like if everyone loved themselves and what they did?" Little did I realize, at the time, that this question would guide my life - personally and professionally.
"...our relationship with ourselves forms the blueprint for all the relationships in our life."
I have traveled the road of, I'm not enough-ness, unworthiness, I'm not Loved. Year by year, through heartbreak, disappointment, and re-newed hope I have come to know, in every cell of my being, that our relationship with ourselves forms the blueprint for all the relationships in our life.
In April 2017, I completed a new manuscript titled, Heart-Healing focusing on the power of forgiveness and freeing our hearts and minds of the wounds of the past. As I wrote the book, I was deeply in Love, with my heart more open than ever before to not only express and give Love but to receive Love. And receive I did. While I shared some of my personal heart-healing experiences in the book, I felt healed in the present.
Then three weeks after I sent the manuscript was off to my publisher I received an email, from the man I loved, who was off on a trip,
I am back on my path. The path I was on when we met. Our love filled my life with joy. I thought it was my new path to be with you...but over here I have seen my way again. And I have realized it is my way is not our way.
There is not much else to say except I have been blessed by your presence for the time you were with me.
But now I must set out again on the road that I was on.
I wish you all the best -- best selling books, novels, special friends, full happiness, bliss.
I will be back on May 9. I have things to wrap up and to prepare for an extended time in Asia. I do not think it will be a good time for us to be sharing my house as I will be in the process of wrapping up my time on the pond. Getting ready for my water to be the Mekong, the Yangtze, the South China Sea, Lake Lugu...
All my love and best wishes, Bo
And so, out of the blue, my next heart-healing journey was before me (and the book was delayed 'til later 2018). In the past 9 months I have put into practice everything I have learned in almost 70 years of life, study, and deep work with thousands of clients throughout the world.
"...step by step, day by day I know that I am worthy of the Love I desire."
I am happy to report that I have kept my heart open. I know the terrain of this road...and step by step, day by day I know that I am worthy of the Love I desire and I am wholeheartedly grateful for all the Love and support in my life.
Wherever you are today, on your heart-healing journey, take a moment to listen to the wisdom of your heart:
make yourself comfortable
close your eyes
take 5 full deep breaths
place your hands on your heart
ask your heart, What do you need to heal?
listen to the answer (your heart speaks simply and directly not with long explanations)
from the deeper wider center of the Loving being you are, give yourself what is needed
Remember: The more you give yourself the Love your heart is calling for - the more you are open to receiving Love from others.
I'd love to hear your experience with this exercise and questions you have about heart-healing...
Til next time...